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How to Improve Your Relationship with Your Girlfriend or Spouse

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Do you want to know how to improve your relationship with your girlfriend or your wife? It’s easy to improve your relationship and to reconnect with her if that’s your goal.

One of the reasons women lose interest is because they get totally bored. Most guys take a woman to lunch, dinner, and movies. That same routine continues for weeks or months. Women want excitements in their lives, not a total boredom.

When a woman reacts positively, it doesn’t necessarily mean she is falling in love. Men tend to fall in love much quicker than women. On the other hand, women tend to follow their intellects than their emotions and that’s just their nature. A woman in her early twenties is bound to change with time, and won’t hesitate to leave a man when she meets another man she likes better.

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This guide will help you keep the love in your life more meaningful and lasting. If you put enough time and show your love in your relationship, life as a couple will become more wonderful than if you ignore the following tips:

1. Communication in a Relationship

Communication is a vital part of any good relationship. A healthy relationship should be open and honest. If you both cannot sit down and speak calmly to each other, then this is a sign of communication problem and you’re in a toxic relationship.

If you want to improve your relationship, then try to improve your communication.

  • Learn to listen carefully to show that you care for her and her opinion.
  • Don’t interrupt her while she is talking even during an argument between the two of you. Always wait for her to pause to show your respect.
  • Show interest in the subject she is talking about. Keep an eye contact to show you’re interested and paying attention to her.
  • Whether you agree or disagree, never shout. A true gentleman may be firm in his voice, but shouting is a sign of weakness.
  • Try not to be judgmental, but provide feedback or advice.
  • Be honest about your feeling and your desire, and ask about her feeling.
  • Body language is a part of good communication. Pay attention to her body language. If she avoids eye contact, she may be disinterested in the subject.
  • Try to be honest in all your communication. If you are happy, angry or frustrated, then you need to tell her. Encourage her to be honest with you and to let you know how she feels without getting angry.

2. Respect in a Relationship

You need to show your constant love and respect if you want your relationship to last and prosper.

  • Honor personal space and boundaries by never taking her for granted.
  • Show your respect by asking her opinions, seeking advice, opening doors for her, and so on.
  • Pride stands in the way of true friendship. Turning back to pride and selfishness will heal your relationship.
  • Be open to share your opinion, but don’t force your opinion on her. If you are out to dinner, make suggestions but let her decide.

3. Sense of Humor in a Relationship

One of the main reasons of getting into a relationship is to enjoy life and being able to laugh at each other. Try to live the life to its fullest with fun and filled with adventures. Smiling and laughing can help to ease tension by not letting it build up.

4. Love and Appreciation in a Relationship

One of the main reasons of sour relationship is money. The next main reason is taking her for granted. Here are some tips to remember:

  • Both of you need to get your short-term and long-term finances in order. It is important that couples learn that they both responsible for finances. When you have a saving plan ahead, conversation about money will be less stressful.
  • Thank her for every little thing she does for you to show your appreciation, respect, and to make her happy.
  • There are arguments and fights in every relationship. The most important thing is to solve issues and to avoid building up resentments that could damage the relationship.
  • Show your respect, love, and kiss her in every occasion. A good hog can help to calm her nerves and to show your love and kind heart.
  • At every opportunity, try to get away from all distractions. Go on a picnic together. Try short or long vacations to areas you both enjoy visiting. Walk or run along a beach or at park together. Hold hands in public. Save money and buy her a gift you know she likes to have. Go to her favorite restaurant. Learn to do something new together. Don’t look at other women when you are with her. Show that you appreciate being with her.

By Michael Tavelloni – 2019 – Update 2020
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For additional articles written by Michael Tavelloni, see Michael Tavelloni is the author of How to Succeed With Women published in 2019.

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